There is no doubt in my mind that hopelessness is the only way for a blissful life. There is nothing out there and no event out there which I hope to come true which would turn out the way I feel.
I see very clearly that the only way to a happy life would be to have no expectations of anyone or any event. Having expectations makes me live in the future as I am hoping for a certain outcome. All the while ignoring the present which is the only thing we have. The present exists. The future is just a mental construct in our mind which doesn’t exist yet.
Having no expectations of people and things make it so when something good does happen it’s joyful and not something expected. With no hope of anything or anyone improving in the future, I enjoy the present way more because my mind is not thinking about what could happen.
There is nothing in the future which will make me happy and satisfied forever. Everyone, every event, and every place leads nowhere. It leads nowhere because nothing lasts or means anything. Nothing will give me unlimited bliss because it will just lead to more chases. The only thing in this entire world which will give it to me is the present moment.
The present moment is where I can change and do stuff. People hoping for so many things but in the end it all leads to disappointment or disappointment in the future because hopes fulfilled do not feel the same way.
I am really grateful and blessed that I learnt this at 27 years old. I am going on the solo path of ultimate freedom and not miserable human living. If only people knew the truth then their whole life would change… However I have no faith in humanity to even come close to this. Humanity is truly bound to a life of misery, suffering and pain their whole life. There can be no other way for people deluding themselves of the truth…